Ravi, Bangalore
Participating in the Retreat at the Study Centre is a
recommended activity for all irrespective of age or objective.
The setting in the Valley School campus in the midst of nature
and the overall structure of the programme is extremely suited
for a dialogue with 'self' amidst the right facilitators and
participants - all on the same journey but on many different
paths.
Right from the moment of arrival at the centre on a rainy
evening, the first experience of being 'aware' happened while
being led to our rooms.Snails were crawling across the pathways
and we were to use our torches to avoid trampling on them and we
were reminded to perhaps slow down as in our usual rush we had
inadvertently stepped on a few before we were made 'aware' of
their presence.
How to be 'fully available' and aware to whatever the activity
we were doing - walking, eating, listening, reading, talking -
without having any judgement on it was the mainstay of the
program and revealed a lot. The retreat was structured in a way
that each activity peeled away layer on layer drawing you more
and more inwards. Our facilitators (fellow journey companions
would be more apt) gave us the space, time and specific inputs
which made the whole experience superlative. And above all,
Krishna ji's words and thoughts shone like a beacon everywhere
constantly reminding that we need to know ourselves first. "If
you begin to understand what you are without trying to change
it, then what you are undergoes a transformation."
Jiddu Krishnamurti
I came into the retreat as a parent, husband, employee and with
my own set of beliefs, past, knowledge etc. but left just as
someone on a journey to understand oneself. It is certainly
difficult to put this into practice once we get back to daily
life but the least we can do is to have a strong intent to live
with awareness in the present. Hope to see this message spread
further and more people benefit from such retreats.
Gokul, Chennai
"My experience of the retreat (continuing now as well) was
really beautiful.
In fact, just after the retreat, while I was returning back
home, I was reading something K said on duality and conflict
(from Mind without Measure), and it so clearly struck some part
of me and the way I looked at conflict. That was so powerful.
Something from that has stayed on from that moment, and I feel
it is helping in the 'sense of unbrokenness' and 'feeling less
of an effort' while being observant of myself.
The possibility of integration of the external, body and mind
awareness is also something that I discovered more fully
during the retreat.
During the silent periods, the sense of this integrated
awareness was more, leading to the ability to see with more
clarity what is happening in the inside of my body-mind.
It was very interesting to observe myself during the dialogue
process as well, to see the mind subtly chattering and hearing
from past inferences, agreeing, relating, disagreeing,
justifying, etc. That is something that has continued since
then, and the self-observation while listening to others speak
continues to show me a great deal of what's going on inside and
whether I'm really listening from a fresh state of mind.
All the activities of the retreat were so much a window to the
self and the power of self observation, from which I feel a real
unfolding of the layers causing conflict happens.
I continue to look at myself from the unfolding that happened at
the retreat.
The study retreat has really been a very interesting and
powerful experience."
Sameer Gandhi, IT Professional
This retreat was a much required pit-stop to the grilling F-1
lifestyle which many of us are going through.
At the retreat ,slowing down the pace of living, rediscovering
self, pondering over JK's teachings in the company of
like-minded people ; spending time in such a serene ,peaceful
atmosphere , getting connected with nature, enjoying listening
to the sounds of the insects, the continuous chatter of the
birds.. well, the time seems to have stopped here!
Sanjay Kumar, Mumbai
Life has quite drastically changed after the retreat. About my
experience of the retreat i would just like to say that it has
changed my mindset, the way i look at the things .Now, in everything i do i have a sense of observation in
me.
I think that's the best thing that ever happened to me. I am
looking forward to improve on it.
I thank the Bangalore Study Centre very much for making such
retreats possible.
Swetha Gowri (ex-student, The valley school)
The retreat came at a very important time to us and has helped
me look at all the happenings in my little life objectively- I
have been able to see where my thinking energies were going and
re-direct them positively. I think being removed from the
typical routines of your life and placed in such a natural
setting has given rise to some important introspections on the
nature of our lives, our attachments and dependencies. On coming
back, I have been very alert to all the patterns and traps of
everyday interactions that take us into some needless quagmire
in our minds. I think "watching" has been a useful tool for
reflecting without instantly reacting. On a physical level,
these have helped me in my day-to-day interactions with people.
On a very internal, personal level, being so close to nature,
has revived and revealed some invisible structures of the self-
I feel the need to be engaged with this discovery everyday.
There have been times when in a leaf or a flower, I feel like I
am speaking with god, with the universe- it's a great feeling of
quietness. I am quietly marveling at all this since returning
from the retreat.
Anuradha, Chandigarh
The theme of the retreat was very gently opened up, discussed
& was very well connected with JK's philosophy about the
conditioning of the mind, awareness of the self, sensitivity and
connectedness to nature and society in general.
I feel a new awakening in me and a thirst for understanding
myself more. I stopped having an enquiring mind long ago &
now I have it again. Thank you 'Study center' for preserving
JK's rich philosophy and making it readily available for all
those who seek.
Abhisheka, Ecologist
I went through a whole lot of new experiences that it is very
difficult to summarise. I'm unable to express through words, the
retreat has triggered a lot of important changes in my life. For
the very first time in my life I opened up to a group
voluntarily. Being an extremely introvert person, sharing my
personal feelings was not my cup of tea. The friendly atmosphere
and the feeling that I will not be laughed at or criticised
allowed me to be free. I really liked the non-authoritative,
non-leader centric exploration of the retreat.
Rahul Sekhar
It's strange that as a Valley alumni, it took me so many years
to think of going for a retreat at the study center. After going
for one, I can't recommend it highly enough. It was conducted so
well, and wasn't in the least boring or stuffy. I rediscovered
just how beautiful the place was, realised how long it had been
since I was close to nature. And I found myself changed in
minute ways afterward. It's just the beginning of course, but
the retreat lit a much needed spark.
Sekhar Soorianarayanan
I just love these retreats. It gives me the much needed quiet
time to reflect within myself and understand some very important
questions of our life (that we take for granted). Every aspect
of the program was very meaningful and was very well thought of.
I would continue to recommend this program to all whom I know
are interested in deeper understanding of life.